Friendship vs Love

There is a big difference between friendship and love. However, the extent to which the seemingly formed friendship between two people of the opposite sex can be considered as real friendship is a matter of considerable concern. It is a matter of great doubt as to how much the friendship between a boy and a girl is capable of maintaining the status of real friendship, because this seemingly formed friendship can be transformed into love. Rabindranath Tagore, while trying to differentiate between friendship and love in his various contexts, admits this, saying that many people say that friendship can gradually change into love, but love can not stop at the end of friendship. Once I have loved, I will either love or not love; But *** once you have befriended someone, you are not prevented from establishing a love affair with him ***. That is, there is a place for the rise and fall of friendship. Because, he doesn’t occupy all the space. (Collected from Rabindranath Tagore’s ‘Miscellaneous Context’) On the other hand, according to renowned fiction writer Humayun Ahmed, ‘Boy and girl can be friends, but they must fall in love with each other. Maybe for a very short time, or at the wrong time. Or too late, or not forever. But they will fall in love … How true Humayun Ahmed’s idea is can’t be determined at once but it may be difficult to determine

Not that the closeness of a constantly growing relationship between a boy and a girl is always difficult to limit by the definition of friendship. Naturally, men are suddenly attracted to women in the corner, but women in the corner are not suddenly and intensely attracted to men. That is why in the mutual friendship and companionship of the boy and the girl, the girl is not so much attracted to the boy, but the boy is attracted to the girl. A recent scientific study in Norway found that women mistakenly described men’s lustful desires as friendly behavior, while men mistakenly treated women’s friendly behavior as lustful behavior. [… a new study in the journal Evolutionary Psychology has some compelling findings. The research, conducted in Norway, found that men, and women fundamentally misunderstand each other:: In simple words, when a boy is attracted to his girlfriend and trying to please her, the girl is wrong to use the boy’s behavior only as a friend. Doing.

Similarly, when the girl is just laughing and mingling with the boy thinking that she is just a friend, the boy thinks that the girl is attracted to him. How to call such behavior ‘friendship’, it is not exactly binding! And yet, if it is claimed to be at the stage of friendship, I will say that it is not a real friendship, but a replica of the romantic chaos and shamelessness hidden behind friendship. For good reason, Oscar Wilde may have acknowledged the existence of passion, love, enmity, etc. between men and women, but denied the friendly relationship, saying, ‘Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship.


Ten interesting facts about friendship.

‘Friend means to be a little side by side, friend means to hold hands, friend means to be arrogant but still friend because friend knows …’. Your ‘friend’ may know everything, but you should also know. There have been many pictures of friendship in Bollywood too.

1) If you don’t have a friend in your life to whom you can talk about everything, it can be very harmful to your health like intoxication or obesity.

2) On an average, a person has 398 good friends in his whole life. But the funny thing is that only one out of every 12 friends survives in the end.

3) In words, if there is a real tension in the friendship, but after 50 years of no contact, even if the friends hugged each other just like before.

4) Friendship is a feeling that is formed in children from the time when they do not even learn to express themselves well. Children’s attraction to a particular toy or soft toy is actually a kind of friendship.

5) A mere friendship between an adult man and an adult woman without any sexual desire is very rare. A study from the University of Wisconsin says that 6 percent of men are physically attracted to their girlfriends, even in general friendships.

6) A 2004 report by the American Sociological Review states that in the last 20 years, from the eighties of the last century to the millennium, the number of faithful friends worldwide has declined by an average of one-third.

6) A research report from Cornell University says that most people have two best friends or best friends in their life.

6) Friendships in the workplace are very rare. Colleagues and friends are never synonymous. According to a LinkedIn survey, 6 percent of people born after 1980 are willing to give up friendship with a colleague for promotion.

9) Girls are much more friendly than boys. Research from an educational institution in London says boys value family relationships more than friends.

10. According to anthropologist Robin Dunbar, love destroys at least two friendships in the life of every human being. Boy or girl, he loses two of his closest friends within a few days of falling in love.