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Confidence
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Exhortations:

1 / Good moment, good day. Remember forever. Put away the troubles, fulfill the dreams, see new good dreams, remember me.

2 / If you can’t laugh, don’t cry. If you can’t give pleasure, don’t give pain. If you can’t love, don’t hate. And if you can not be a friend, will not be an enemy?

3 / Never play with people’s faith. Then one day you will see, you will not find anyone in this world to convince you.

4 / Everybody is your own, not in your mind, who is your own after work, love can be performed in a sweet tone, it is easy to say love, not love !!

5 / After birth, it takes a maximum of 2 years to learn to speak, but it takes a lifetime to learn what to say in any place!

8 / Happiness is the name of the most valuable asset in the world. Whose buyer is all but the seller is only one — Allah .. !!

7 / If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one,

Because if you really loved the first person, then you will never fall in love with the second person .. !!

7 / Believe in someone who makes you feel guilty about being sad.

Love someone who will be afraid of losing you all the time, will look for you without talking to you.

9 / You don’t need much to be happy. Need some people who really understand you !!

10 / It is very difficult when someone special is neglecting you and it is even more difficult

When you have to act, you don’t think anything of it!

11 / If the bird of the forest loses you when you wake up..that is your failure. ~ Hazrat Abu Bakr (R)

12 / You are beautiful to look at, do not hate others. Because, in whose hand you are created, he is created. Never be arrogant about your beauty.

13 / Strong is not the person who can wrestle very much. Rather, the one who is strong is the one who can control himself in anger. – Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)

14 / Sometimes it is difficult to learn to walk alone? Because, without whom you can’t walk, or think you can’t live, he’s alive without you.

15 / If tears come to someone’s eyes for your little pride, then remember, no one loves you more than that!

16 / Do not take revenge on yourself, wait for Allah. Then he will save you. Hazrat Sulaiman (AS)

16 / Although everything is uncertain in the future, one’s own death is certain and destruction is for him whose day is not better than yesterday’s ত ..so he will try to get better every day.

16 / You will build such a life, you will laugh at death, you will cry.

19 / The past will hurt you, the future will give you hope and the present will always be with you. So always think about the present. (Humayun Ahmed)

20 / If you keep getting hurt again and again in your life, don’t feel guilty for it. Don’t get in trouble. Just remember,

‘The tree with the sweetest fruit is the one that is stoned the most.

21 / Don’t think yourself too clever. Don’t forget – if you have the ability to walk silently, someone else has the ability to fly in the air, not uncommon.

22 / You will not be tired even if you walk restlessly in the heart of the hot desert, you will stand for a moment, if hope is strong, determination is firm….

23 / Do not go to the people of the mind to express more emotions. Because he can take advantage of your weakness.

24 / If you love someone, love them forever. And if you don’t live, you will never live. Toy playing with ignorant mind, do not give pain to any innocent heart 6.

25 / We forget who fed us rasgolla a hundred times, but we remember who once twisted our ears .. !! Remember the next benefit.

26 / If you can’t be a good pencil, to write someone’s happy story..then be a good rubber, as if you can erase someone’s sorrow… !!

26 / Never rely too much on anyone in life, because in the dark your shadow leaves you.

26 / A person who is much happier in a short time, but he also suffers a lot in a short time. The greater the power of pleasure, the greater the power of suffering. So don’t hurt anyone.

29 / It is better to stay in a hut with full satisfaction, there is no selfishness in living in a big building with dissatisfaction.

30 / Two people in the world should love too much. One is the one who gave birth to you and the other is the one who gave birth to you.

Some advice

Confidence
Exaggeration quote


1) We sell only to meet different millions. When one lakh is fulfilled, another lakh comes and appears in front.

When I think about it, I find that fulfilling all the goals is unprofitable. I have gotten into this situation as hard as I have, but the value of what I have had to give up is much higher.

For him, survival seems to be just waiting to die. In the middle of achieving goals just do something from just being subdued. That’s why you can’t wait to die.

2) The thing I have learned from life is that there is no one to benefit

If no one wants to help you, you will end up in danger.

Rather, he will remember for the rest of his life what he will do for his needs… and he will be grateful. And if for any reason you need to cooperate with him

If you can’t, that’s what you’ll remember for the rest of your life… that’s what you’ll always show and

He will forget the benefits of your previous advancement… this is normal [this happens not to everyone but to most people].

3) If you want to give someone a run, first you have to learn how to run well, otherwise there is a possibility of running and giving a run.

4) There is only one life, if this one life is spent on income and food, then what is left in life …

He is comfortable with his wife, son and daughter by earning good money by doing good job like other ordinary people

I gave up my lazy life … but what good did it do me … I made my son and daughter dependent!

One day I will die … No one felt the need to survive except for a few people close to me … So does this life have any meaning !!!!!!

5) What has happened is good, what is happening is getting better, what will happen will also be good. What have you lost, that you are crying?

What did you bring that you lost? Have you created that which is ruined? What you took, you took from here,

Here is what you gave. What you have today, yesterday it was someone else’s, the day after tomorrow it will be someone else’s. Change is the rule of the world.

6) Coal dust will not get rid of coal dirt, but there is a chance of depletion of coal erosion. And we should all take that opportunity.

6) ✬ Human life is like a flowing river. Just as rivers are created by the blows of stones, so are obstacles created by the blows of human beings.

Experience is gained. By eating what he learns to understand life, he learns to recognize. The river is like a river when it is hit by a rock

In the same way, in human life, it is seen that he stepped on one path but when the path was blocked, he stepped on the other path. Once he got his way. This is how human life is created.

As the waves rise in the river, so do the storms of sorrow, suffering, emptiness in human life.

In the evolution of time such river waves stop. In the same way, the wave of life stops. So it will take time for the waves to calm down.

6) Man’s day of death is his true birthday. Because, the circuit that started from birth is completed by death.

The portrait of a man after death is visible in front. So death is his real birthday. ‘

9) The death penalty is a very low standard of punishment. Because it frees the criminal and punishes something

Relatives of innocent people (such as father, brother, sister, wife, children).

10. The meaning of life is different for every human being in the world. As the meaning of my life changes over time,

Similarly, I think every person finds his life in a different sense at different times. For some people, living in this beautiful world is the name of life. Some people think that life is not just about living, they think about finding happiness in life.

Some people think that it is possible to find the real meaning of life only by owning a lot of money and property. In fact, life is:

শুরু The beginning of a beautiful morning means life …

জীবন Spending every moment happily means life

জীবন Gaining self-satisfaction means life

জীবন Life is meant to alleviate all kinds of pain

All those sorrows overcome the hardships … Life is in the midst of overcoming every obstacle.

জীবন Life is between walking on one’s own will and standing up against injustice.

11) ‘Life is a flowing stream. Sometimes undulating, sometimes undisturbed. Maybe a momentary journey. Nothing more.

Survival is a wonder, but enjoying life through good deeds should be the main goal of human life. So that people survive even after death

There is a lot of discussion about what is being done. Life is dedicated to human welfare, the welfare of the country.

What can I give to this generation I am nobody, nothing. I can only give my life. ‘

12) ‘The greatest way to understand life is to live life, to live life as you are.

13) “All my problems are you” stand, do not leave after hearing this. The whole sentence may be “All my problems have been solved since you came”.

14) ✬ Do not waste time planning. Whenever you have to plan … because no event

There is no certainty that things will happen as planned, so why should I waste both time and brain with pre-planning.

15. Excessive expectations always turn into despair. Never expect too much. Be sure about your qualifications before expecting.

Then expect according to merit. When you don’t get anything as expected, frustration naturally comes and fills your mind. So think ahead to reality.

Running after something unreal reduces the length of life as precious time passes from life. So rejoice in what you have succeeded in doing.

16. Self-centeredness and the ‘before me’ attitude transforms life into a tedious one. Kindness and empathy, on the other hand, transform life into joy.

Haji Muhammad Mohsin of Danbir used to say, I have only one life. I can’t go the way I’m going now.

16. People have been asking since ancient times. For example, our children ask what is it? What is that? At one time the human race was also a child.

Then people are asking, what is it? What’s that? At one time we used to say, the sun is rising, the sun is setting. But no, now I say, I’m getting up, I’m drowning.

The universe has an attraction. There are more globes like Earth, there is also the power of attraction.

16) No matter how well you treat a person or be friendly with him, one day

You misbehaved with him because he was distracted. He will not understand what is on your mind. You will remember him for the rest of your life.

19) You can never snatch someone else’s love or force others to like you.

All you can do is create yourself in such a way that everyone is fascinated by your usage and starts liking you.

The famous quote by Steve Jobs is one of the best inspirational stories in the world.

He is one of the best entrepreneurs of all time. Just remember one thing I will die very soon this word will help to make the biggest decisions in life. Because when I think of death, all the pride and arrogance is lost, there is only what I really need. The famous quote by Steve Jobs is one of the best inspirational stories in the world. Who has created the most influential company in the world by his intellect and tireless work.

He was born on February 24-1955 in California. His mother was an unmarried and college student. So she could not keep him to herself and thought of adopting him to a family. Pauljobs and Clerazbous later give to a poor family but stipulate that Steve must be given a higher education and they accept everything and accept Steve. Although Paul Jobs and Cleridge Jobs did not have much money, they did not fulfill any of Steve’s demands. Jobs began his primary education at Montalma School in 1962. At the age of 18, Jobs enrolled at Stanford College, a very expensive college. After 6 months of running out of money for his parents, Steve had a hard time seeing his parents. Disappointed, he decided to drop out of college and had no home to live in, so he slept on the floor of one of his friends’ rooms. He sold bottles of Coldings and ate with the money he earned. Every Sunday he walked 11 kilometers to a church to eat good food. A few days later he got into a business and built the operating system MAC-IN-TOSH with a friend sitting in his father’s garage. After that, he created Apple Company in 1975 at the age of 20 with his own hard work. Which in just 10 years turned into a company of 4,000 people valued at বিল 2 billion.

But this success of Steve Jobs did not last long in his life. The company’s market continues to deteriorate due to disagreements with its own company’s partners. All the blame was laid on him at a company board meeting and he was fired from his company in 1985. This was the greatest sorrow of Steve Jobs! Some days Steve had a hard time and learned from the hardships and started a new PIXAR company. Picture created the world’s first animation movie toystory, the current picture is the world’s largest animation studio. A few days later, Jobs bought APPLE. That’s how Jobs returned to his previous company and became the CEO of Apple. He thinks that the focus should be on quality and not product quantity. He died of cancer on October 5, 2011 in California. He said that those who can change the world like crazy can change.

What do we understand from this story? No matter how many times a person fails, he has done his best by working hard without giving up. He never thought his life was in vain, he fought with time and made his dream come true. We must learn from all our sorrows. We must understand ourselves. I must be able to, why I cannot. Dream big and start small and do something for the future. Show those who make fun of you today what you can do.

Steve says the biggest problem we have is that we lose faith a little bit, at least move forward with confidence in ourselves. Think about yourself from today, what are you doing for yourself? You shine from within you.

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Where Does our Self-Esteem Come From?

Our self-esteem develops and evolves throughout our lives as we build an image of ourselves through our experiences with different people and activities. Experiences during our childhood play a particularly large role in the shaping of our basic self-esteem.

When we were growing up, our successes (and failures) and how we were treated by the members of our immediate family, by our teachers, coaches, religious authorities, and by our peers, all contributed to the creation of our basic self-esteem .

An adult who has healthy self-esteem was given this gift in childhood. This could have been done in many ways. Probably one of the most important is being praised for accomplishments. Children who are talked to respectfully and listened to also contributed to healthy self-esteem in adulthood. These children were hugged often and given attention and experienced some type of success in school or sporting activities.

On the other side of the spectrum, we have to identify the childhood for those adults who have poor self-esteem. These children were often criticized harshly, were yelled at or beaten, and were given little attention by those they were closest to. They were ridiculed and even teased as they experienced failures in their young lives. They were made to feel they had to be perfect in order to be valued and associated failure in situations as a failure of their whole selves.

It’s sad, isn’t it? To think of a child treated that way. What’s even sadder is the effect that treatment has on their lives as adults. We are shaped and molded by our experiences. Do you recognize yourself?

How we feel about ourselves can influence how we live our lives. People who feel that they are likable and lovable (in other words people with good self-esteem) have better relationships. They are more likely to ask for help and support from friends and family when they need it. People who believe they can accomplish goals and solve problems are more likely to do well in school. Having good self-esteem allows you to accept yourself and live life to the fullest.

Self-esteem plays a role in almost everything we do. People with high self-esteem do better in school and find it easier to make friends. They tend to have better relationships with peers and adults, feel happier, find it easier to deal with mistakes, disappointments, and failures and are more likely to stick with something until they succeed. It takes some work, but it’s a skill you’ll have for life.

This book is about how to raise your self-esteem, so we will focus on the low self-esteem that many people have these days. You can overcome issues with low self-esteem. It’s not as difficult as you might think. In fact, all you have to do is recognize, understand, and use the techniques we will give you.

One of the initial questions we feel compelled to address is what exactly self-esteem is.

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A little inspiration from the mother, the blessings of a thousand strong mothers. What can change a child’s life,

Md. Ridhoy was only four years old when he was studying in the children’s class. Ridho’s intelligence was less than that of an ordinary boy. He was not good at studying like other students, suddenly one day madam called his mother and asked her to do a math in front of her mother but Ridho could not do it out of fear. Ridho became paralyzed for some time. He waited for a long time. Madam made him very ashamed in front of his mother and also listened to his mother a lot and told her not to keep Ridho in school. After a few days Ridho refrains from going to school, he is given a chance after many requests from his mother. The students laughed and joked about Ridho at school. Ridho had to cry a lot when he returned home and his mother told him, “I know that if you want a lot of talent, you have to be good at studying.” But the fear of shame inside you works even the various inertia that has made you humble to everyone today. I know you can, show everyone the talent that is hidden inside you. No one is born wise in this world, everyone comes and becomes wise. My prayers are with you. You go ahead, Dad!

After four long years, Ridhoy took first place in the list of meritorious students of the school and got a scholarship in the merit list. She presents a sweet smile on her mother’s face. The man who once made everyone laugh has made the name of the school bright today. One of the great strengths behind this success of the boy was his mother’s little inspiration, the blessings of a thousand strong mothers. That can change a child’s life, make him the best person. Today, instead of encouraging our children, we say that nothing will happen to you, you can’t do it, you are a scumbag and so on. If we can’t do a job once or twice, we gossip and that’s why thousands of Edison, Michael Jordan, Kazi Nazrul Islam are missing from us. Why can’t we give them a little inspiration, a little courage, that you try, you can.

The poet says don’t say this and don’t say it again. So we will always try to give courage to our children so that they can win without any fear. Trust your child, love him, never misunderstand your child.

(Remember that in one word your son or daughter can do something different, maybe one of the best people in the country) MaxPro BD

A little inspiration from the mother, the blessings of a thousand strong mothers. What can change a child’s life,

Md. Ridhoy was only four years old when he was studying in the children’s class. Ridho’s intelligence was less than that of an ordinary boy. He was not good at studying like other students, suddenly one day madam called his mother and asked her to do a math in front of her mother but Ridho could not do it out of fear. Ridho became paralyzed for some time. He waited for a long time. Madam made him very ashamed in front of his mother and also listened to his mother a lot and told her not to keep Ridho in school. After a few days Ridho refrains from going to school, he is given a chance after many requests from his mother. The students laughed and joked about Ridho at school. Ridho had to cry a lot when he returned home and his mother told him, “I know that if you want a lot of talent, you have to be good at studying.” But the fear of shame inside you works even the various inertia that has made you humble to everyone today. I know you can, show everyone the talent that is hidden inside you. No one is born wise in this world, everyone comes and becomes wise. My prayers are with you. You go ahead, Dad!

After four long years, Ridhoy took first place in the list of meritorious students of the school and got a scholarship in the merit list. She presents a sweet smile on her mother’s face. The man who once made everyone laugh has made the name of the school bright today. One of the great strengths behind this success of the boy was his mother’s little inspiration, the blessings of a thousand strong mothers. That can change a child’s life, make him the best person. Today, instead of encouraging our children, we say that nothing will happen to you, you can’t do it, you are a scumbag and so on. If we can’t do a job once or twice, we gossip and that’s why thousands of Edison, Michael Jordan, Kazi Nazrul Islam are missing from us. Why can’t we give them a little inspiration, a little courage, that you try, you can.

The poet says don’t say this and don’t say it again. So we will always try to give courage to our children so that they can win without any fear. Trust your child, love him, never misunderstand your child.

(Remember that in one word your son or daughter can do something different, maybe one of the best people in the country) MaxPro BD

This story is very important for us to know ourselves.

Bank Account

Imagine there is a bank, which credits your account each morning with Rs 86,400, carries over no balance from day to day, allows you to keep no cash balance, and every evening cancels whatever part of the amount you had failed to use during the day . What would you do? Draw out every pence, of course!
Well, everyone has such a bank. Its name is Time.

Every morning, it credits you with 86,400 seconds. Every night it writes off, as lost, whatever of this you have failed to invest to good purpose. It carries over no balance. It allows no overdraft. Each day it opens a new account for you. Each night it burns the records of the day. If you fail to use the day’s deposits, the loss is yours.

There is no going back. There is no drawing against the “tomorrow.”

Therefore, there is never not enough time or too much time. Time management is decided by us alone and nobody else. It is never the case of us not having enough time to do things, but the case of whether we want to do it.

A Poor Young Boy and The Dog story.



A few days ago I landed at the Bombay Airport (India) and took a cab to my scheduled destination in South Bombay.

I was enjoying the busy traffic with people rushing in every possible directions then we got stranded at a very busy intersection.

As we waited for the signal to turn green, my eyes met up with a poor young boy, about 12 years old. He removed a piece of bread from his pocket and took a bite.

As he was about to take his next bite, a stray dog wagged his tail looking at him. Without hesitation, he sat down and put the bread on the road for the dog to eat.

The dog sniffed the bread and walked away. The boy waited until he was sure the dog was gone then he picked up the bread and ate it!

My heart cried and wanted to walk up to the boy but before I could open the door the signal turned Green and our car drove away. I kept thinking about the boy and later during my evening meal I realized that I was thinking of approaching the boy but never did, I could have stopped the car and walked up to him which again I never did.

All I did was “thinking” and this poor little boy who had only one piece of bread without any hesitation sharing it with the dog, though he himself seemed to be very hungry.

I learnt one of the biggest lessons in my life which that boy taught me without a conversation. He taught me to share with love and happiness. I am so blessed to have learnt this beautiful lesson from my ‘little unknown master’. It is my moral duty to share this incident with all my friends across the globe and be blessed with happiness.

Thank you friends for making this world a beautiful place to dwell.

By Dr. Derrick Angelsz
India’

One glass of milk, full paid story

A glass of Milk, paid in Full

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door.

Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk.

He drank it slowly, and then asked, “How much do I owe you?”

“You don’t owe me anything,” she replied. “Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness.”

He said, “Then I thank you from my heart.”

As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.

Year’s later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease.

Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room.

Dressed in his doctor’s gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case.

After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room.

She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She began to read the following words:

“Paid in full with one glass of milk.

Signed, Dr. Howard Kelly.”

Author Unknown

#9 Have a growth mindset

So, you may be asking yourself “What exactly is a growth mindset?” Well, a growth mindset is an actual, demonstrable psychological phenomenon. It turns out that many long-term successful individuals possess certain characteristics that they share with other long-term successful individuals. This set of characteristics has been termed a “growth mindset”. Now, some people, who tend to achieve less than their full potential, also possess a set of characteristics that they share with other under-achievers. This set of traits has been dubbed the “fixed mindset”. Most people, more or less, fall into one camp or the other.

People with a growth mindset tend to have a desire to learn from life. This desire leads to the ability to embrace challenges, to overcome setbacks, to see effort as worth the results, to accept criticism and to admire and learn from the successes of others. These behaviors allow native intelligence to grow throughout a lifetime. (Hence, the name.) People with a growth mindset are believers in free will and this belief allows them to achieve their goals time and time again.

People with a fixed mindset tend to have a desire to appear smart, with a corresponding fear of looking foolish. Their desire leads them to avoid challenges, to give up easily, to see extra effort as wasted, to ignore or reject criticism and to envy and begrudge the success of others. These behaviors tend to limit native intelligence to a fixed amount. (Again, hence the name.) People with a fixed mindset often plateau early in life and fail to have, let alone reach, fixed goals.

The good news is that a growth mindset can be cultivated fairly easily by changing some critical behaviors. First of all, you have to decide to choose growth over stagnation. You also have to be willing to take positive action and begin to accept challenges and criticism and learning from both. An excellent way to begin is by developing the philosophy of “yet”. This simple step simple attaches the word “yet” to the end of every negative thought, as in “That will never work, yet…” or “It’s probably not worth going, yet…” This simple trick opens up the possibility for growth and that possibility leads to changed behavior that actually does cause the development of the growth mindset.